Under Pressure.

The pressure to have sex at my age is humongous. And i am about to say my piece on it.
Let's start with the obvious, Guys think if they buy you dinner, or take you too a movie, or sometimes if they just grace you with their presence that they deserve to get laid. Its as if (to them) that if you agree to a date your signing a contract to be intimate with them. (disclaimer; i am generalizing, and stereotyping, but don't take it personally, i do in fact know that some guys are not like this). on several occasions this has been a situation i have been put in, its to the point, where i'm scared to agree to go on a date, because i know that when i tell them good night and go on my way (instead of the... alternative) , their going to talk about me, and ill probably never see them again. Its getting to the point where guys need to grow up, and realize they are not gods greatest gift to the universe. not everyone wants to add to their notches on the bedpost. some girls have DIGNITY.
Secondly, if you have to get a girl(or guy) drunk to have sex with them. dont. have more respect for your fellow human beings and yourself.
Also, Friends with benefits is a completely bizarre term to me, youll have sex, but you dont want emotional ties to someone. if you cant be with someone. if you arent in love with them. then you dont need to be having sex with them. Sex is about emotions, and now sex is completely void of emotion ( so it seems)
Now, My rants on girls. specifically.
Do not feel like you have to throw your self at every guy you see, i feel like girls my age have to have sex to be reassured their attractive, or wantable. why dont, instead of going for the one night stand type of guys, you go for the sweet kind, one who will buy you lunch and not even pressure you for a kiss, one who will hold doors open for you, one who will call you beautiful or gorgeous instead of hott.

just a thought.